How to Show Up For Yourself: What’s Your Real Motivation?

How to Show Up For Yourself: What’s Your Real Motivation?

Embarking on a wellness journey is a significant step toward a healthier, happier you. However, as many of us know, starting is sometimes the easiest part. The real challenge lies in maintaining that motivation day in and day out. It doesn’t matter where you are with your fitness goals—understanding your true motivation (your “why”) can make all the difference in unlocking your full potential.

At St. Pete Calisthenics, our goal is for members to feel empowered to find and sustain their true motivation, ensuring that fitness becomes a lifelong commitment, “lifestyle,” rather than a fleeting phase. Here are tips on how you can show up for yourself and discover your real motivation.

The Last Piece of the Wellness Puzzle: Motivation vs. Discipline

Motivation is the driving force behind every action you take. In the context of fitness, it’s what gets you out of bed for that early morning workout, pushes you through the last set of a new exercise, and keeps you coming back for more, even when the initial excitement fades.

Motivation isn’t just about willpower; it’s about finding a deep, personal reason for why you’re doing what you’re doing. But keep in mind: Your motivation shouldn’t come from someone else telling you what you should or shouldn’t do, like a friend or partner. Real motivation comes from within.

Discipline can be defined as doing the things you don’t want to do anyways, regardless of how you feel that day. A bit different than motivation, which is more like a drive or compulsion to do something.

Why Look for Motivation?

It is much easier to find motivation in the progression of a skill that excites you enough to want to show up day after day; versus having to build and maintain the discipline to consistently go to the gym to do the workouts that don’t excite you. This is where our emphasis on fun-fueled fitness comes into play. It is another draw to the mindset shift of “I get to go move my body” vs. “I have to go workout,” big difference, right?

Sure, it’s nice to have motivation to help get you moving in the moment. But in the long run, knowing your source of motivation and reframing your mindset about exercise has greater effects, including:

  1. Consistency: Motivation fuels consistency, which is key to seeing results in any wellness endeavor. Regular exercise and healthy habits compound over time, leading to significant improvements in physical and mental health.
  2. Overcoming Obstacles: Challenges are inevitable in life. Whether it’s a tight schedule, seeing a lack of progress, or feeling hard on yourself, motivation tied to a skill that excites you helps you push through these roadblocks rather than give up.
  3. Mental Resilience: Staying motivated builds mental resilience. It teaches you discipline, patience, and the ability to keep going despite setbacks. Sounds like something we could all use a bit of.

How to Unlock Your Real Motivation

Everyone’s motivation is different, and finding yours requires introspection and honesty with yourself, which isn’t always easy. Here are some tips to help you discover what drives you:

  1. Reflect on YOUR “Why”: Why do you want to embark on this fitness journey? Is it to improve your health, boost your confidence, reduce stress, or something deeper? Write down your reasons, keep asking yourself why, digging even deeper still; then keep them visible daily. These reasons will serve as a reminder of why you started, especially on tough days.
  2. Set Personal Goals: Your goals should be meaningful to you. Avoid setting goals based solely on appearances or external pressures. Instead, focus on what you genuinely want to achieve. Whether it’s running a 5k, mastering a calisthenics move, or simply feeling more energetic throughout the day, make sure your goals resonate with YOUR values and desires.
  3. Visualize Your Success: Visualization is a powerful tool; which some argue is a path to manifest the life you want. Just take a few moments each day to visualize yourself achieving your goals. Imagine how you’ll feel, how your life will improve, and the sweet satisfaction of reaching your milestones. This mental imagery can further reinforce your motivation and make your goals feel more attainable.

The Toughest Part: How to Stay Motivated

Now that you’ve identified your motivation, the next step is maintaining it. Here’s how we keep motivated at St. Pete. Calisthenics:

  1. Create a Routine: Establishing a routine can make your fitness journey more manageable and less overwhelming. Schedule your workouts at a time where you know you’ll feel your best and stick to it. Consistency will help turn exercise into a habit rather than a chore.
  2. Mix It Up: No one likes doing the same thing over and over again, and this applies to your workouts. By trying different types of movements you can keep things interesting. At St. Pete Calisthenics, we offer a wide range of classes, from calisthenics and pole fitness to Animal Flow and Steel Mace Flow, ensuring there’s always something new to try.
  3. Reward Yourself: Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Just 1% better daily in anything, results in 365% better year over year; aim small with new habits and you will win big results in the long run. Rewarding yourself for reaching milestones can boost your motivation greatly. It could be a relaxing spa day with a sauna session, a new workout outfit, or a healthy treat from our café. Recognize your hard work and give yourself the credit you deserve.
  4. Track Your Progress: Use a journal, app, or photos to document your progress over time. When you see how far you’ve come, it can provide the encouragement needed to keep pushing forward.
  5. Reflect: Remind yourself that you are worth it, and that you cannot help others effectively until you help yourself first. Time only moves forwards, so waiting does nothing but make it harder and harder.
  6. Stay Positive: At St. Pete Calisthenics, we want you to leave your negativity at the door. A positive mindset is crucial here. Focus on what you’ve accomplished rather than what you haven’t. Remember that setbacks are part of the process, and every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. Remember, just 1% better than yesterday.

Find Your Motivational Squad

Starting a new fitness mission can feel isolating when you don’t have the right support system. By surrounding yourself with a community of like-minded individuals you can directly impact your success. You are who you hang around.

Here’s how to find your new workout buddy (or buddies):

  1. Join a Gym/Health Club/Wellness Center: Being part of a fitness community can provide the exact amount of encouragement you need. When you drop by St. Pete Calisthenics, you’ll see how our members support each other, share tips, and celebrate each other’s successes, making workouts far more enjoyable.
  2. Participate in Training Sessions: What better way to meet people with similar interests and goals than small group training sessions? The shared experience of mastering a new skill or working toward a mutual goal can create strong bonds. Plus, having a class buddy can help keep you accountable.
  3. Engage on Social Media: Social media platforms are great for connecting with others on fitness journeys. Follow fitness hashtags, join online forums/groups, and engage with others’ posts. Sharing your progress and challenges can create a sense of camaraderie and inspire others, too. Don’t forget to download our app and follow St. Pete Calisthenics on all available platforms!

Put Your Motivation to Use at St. Pete Calisthenics

We’re more than just a gym; we’re a wellness community dedicated to helping you find and sustain your motivation. With our class offerings, training sessions, state-of-the-art facilities, and supportive instructors, we provide everything you need to achieve your fitness goals. Whether you’re looking for structured classes, open gym access, or spa options like our saunas and cold plunges, we have something for everyone.

Our flexible membership plans cater to different needs and preferences, ensuring you find the perfect fit for your lifestyle. Plus, our no-commitment policy means you can cancel anytime, giving you the freedom to focus on what truly matters: you and your journey.

Join us at St. Pete Calisthenics and become part of a community that’s committed to helping you show up for yourself. Together, we’ll make fitness fun, rewarding, and a part of your life that you look forward to each and every day.


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